Conversio Virium
New York City’s Student BDSM Education Group
CV Meeting: What Do I Need Anyway? Relationship Negotiation from D/s to Poly
Published on October 6, 2008 at 10:32 PM by President | Filed under Calendar Events, CV Announcements, CV Meetings | 1 Comment| October 13, 2008 | ||
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Join us for this week’s meeting where Corey Alexander will present on relationship negotiation.
You have heard Them say it. “Advanced relationships take advance work.” “You can’t get your needs met until you know what they are.” Figuring out your limits for SM play is hard enough…how do you figure out what your needs, limits, desires, and bottom lines are in complex BDSM relationships? This class will offer tools for figuring that out, so that you can go into negotiation prepared. It will also offer you tips for negotiating poly relationships, navigating D/s negotiation, and reading your partner(s).
This week, our meeting will be in room 302 Hamilton on Columbia University’s main campus (previous meetings have been held in room 303 Hamilton).
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As usual, Corey’s class was clearly presented and his handout was densely informative.
I know some people may not have felt this class applied to them because of the “D/s” in the title, but honestly, I found the subject to be pertinent to anyone in any relationship – whether monogamous or poly, kinky or vanilla.
Corey offered a wealth of perspectives to remind us all that our partners may not react to things the way we do and that everyone has different needs for play, attention, consent, or love. These concepts would be well applied outside of kinky contexts as well.
Thanks again and I would love it if we could get those handouts online!
Comment by Tyler, Pres. of Vice — October 14, 2008 #